A Word Study

Before we officially leave the holidays of 2015, let's do a little word study:

CHRISTMAS

Christ mass - Christian celebration of the birth of Christ

NATIVITY

Birth or origin - capitalized, it is the holy birth of Jesus

HALLELUJAH

"Praise the Lord"

FELIZ NAVIDAD

Merry Christmas - Literally: Pleasant Birth in Spanish

ADVENT

The four-week period leading up to Christmas, beginning on the fourth Sunday before Christmas Day
In Christian theology, the coming of Jesus Christ

CAROL

 A joyful religious song or hymn, especially a Christian song celebrating Christmas

EMMANUEL or IMMANUEL

God with us - the real meaning of Jesus' birth

JESUS

 A Jewish religious teacher who lived from about 4 BC to Ad 33. His life and teachings form the basis of Christianity

 MORE THAN A RELIGIOUS TEACHER:

• THE SON OF GOD
• THE SAVIOR OF THE WORLD
• THE WAY TO SALVATION & FORGIVENESS OF SIN

No Room in the Inn

It was Christmas morning, 2014, in San Diego. The day was cold and crisp. My husband and I opened the doors to our car parked in the garage of the Holiday Inn. We were eager to drive the ten minutes to our son's home because his young daughters were holding off the Christmas celebration until Grandma Sue and Grandpa Bob arrived. No time to waste!

That's when it hit us. A waft of strong, putrid smoke. Someone had been smoking in our car! How did they get in? Did we forget to lock the doors?

Immediately, I thought of the gifts--some of them cash--in the trunk. More importantly, I feared for the Dutch pastry carefully balanced on top of them. That pastry took me two days to make and it better not be eaten! I thought.

We popped the trunk. Nothing was disturbed. We checked the backseat of the car and everything there looked fine, also. "What is going on?" we asked each other.

Obviously, we had an overnight visitor in our car. It was a tidy and considerate visitor who left nothing behind. After we assured each other the car had been locked, we both became silent. Christmas morning. The night had been very cold. It was only right someone should spend Christmas Eve in the cozy back seat of our Ford Taurus, rather than under a bridge or on the cold California beach--even someone who knew how to jimmy a lock.

Christmas Eve. No room in the inn. Jesus born in a manger, "...because there was no room..." Who can be upset?

That smoky smell lingered for a long time. It served as a reminder of the tragedy of people needing warmth and shelter, especially on Christmas. I am touched and saddened. Who else needs to find a room in the inn? Who else needs to find the love of the Savior?

                                                                             Photo courtesy Lorraine Eyer

Not Busy Enough

The holidays are usually quite hectic. It seems we save up all the celebrating, re-connecting, serving, and giving projects for one season of the year. It makes it fun, though busy. Especially enjoyable are the child-centered events. Just seeing the happiness on young faces makes me smile.

There's another side of that coin, however. I've always felt a tug at my heart for the person who must spend Christmas alone. Memories are terrific but they can go only so far in assuaging the pang of loneliness. Take heart, dear Friends. There are ways to get through the holidays with joy. It takes some effort, but try this:

• Be pro-active about scheduling events with loved ones or friends. It doesn't have to be elaborate. It can be meeting someone for coffee or having them over for a simple dessert (that you buy, not bake).
• Resist the temptation to indulge in a pity-party for yourself. It happens to the best of us. Don't let that ugly monster grab you around the throat.
• Worship God who loved you enough to send his Child to save this messed up world.
• Every day, list five or more things you are grateful for. Gratitude is the basis for joy.
• Enjoy good holiday movies and specials on tv, but if they add to your sadness stick to comedy.
• If you can get out, attend a holiday performance or two. Churches and schools put on lovely programs this time of year.
• Read the Christmas story from Luke chapter two frequently during the holidays.
• Connect with people. Serve.
• If you're homebound and feel isolated, read about Kathryn Koob. She was an American hostage in Iran in the early 1980s and found herself spending two Christmases in a lonely cell. Nevertheless, she set up a place to worship God. She fashioned a tiny cross out of gum wrappers. That became part of her Christmas decorations. Read about it in my blog post from last December:  http://sueraatjes.blogspot.com/2014/12/christmas-alone.html
• There's another post about Kathryn Koob celebrating Christmas. Read here:  http://sueraatjes.blogspot.com/2014/12/easter-in-december.html

Christmas blessings to you, my Friends, whether you're too busy or not busy enough.

God knows, he understands, and he cares.

Merry Christmas!

Sue

Anticipating Christmas

 It's a busy time of year, for sure. I've let my blog posts slide and for that I apologize. Won't happen again. I intend to post a new blog every Thursday, for sure!

Just look at this mess. It really sums up a month without enough days.

This is my "usually tidy" guest room. During December it becomes a wrapping, decorating, dumping spot. I bet everyone has a room like that during the holidays.

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I was raised in the country in a suburb just outside Cleveland, Ohio. My neighborhood consisted of a lot of kids, but most of them were boys. Therefore, I loved it when a girlfriend from school would come to my house for a Friday night sleepover.

I remember watching out my bedroom window for Laurie, my very "bestest" friend. I could see the end of the street so I knew when her dad's car would turn into the neighborhood. Only then would I smile and relax, knowing the sleepover really was going to take place. I don't know why I always doubted she would show. She always did.

I never will forget the feeling of anticipation waiting for Laurie. I really liked her and I liked having a girl to play with, rather than rough-and-tumble boys. We always had a fun time together.

Advent is like that. We anticipate celebrating Jesus' birth and all the festivities surrounding this important holiday. Some even start planning for Christmas in January!

Sometimes, however, we overload ourselves with activities and anticipation turns to exhaustion. Here are some suggestions if you find yourself with too much to do, and too little December left to accomplish it:

• Spend alone time with God, every day--no matter how busy you are.
• Rest.
• Observe good nutrition. Enjoy the delicious holiday treats at gatherings, but eat healthy at home so you can indulge with no guilt.
• Exercise so you can enjoy the fun food. It will help your energy level stay high.
• Schedule family time. The holidays are a good time to do things together: decorating, baking, wrapping, playing board games, watching shmaltzy movies, etc. A once-a-week game night with no electronics will create fun memories. The kids might groan at first, but they'll enjoy it and even look forward to it. Don't forget outdoor fun, no matter what climate you live in. And then, there are Christmas lights to enjoy. The best ones are those someone else puts up.
• Try to make time for family meals. It's a lost art but one that carries value.
• Prioritize your events and scale down, if necessary. A good reminder is: "People are more important than things."
• Allow your family the chance to give to others. It can be fun and will establish valuable memories.
• Spend even more time alone with God. You will maintain your equilibrium in what can be a chaotic time of year.

Christmas should be celebrated. The birth of Jesus is God's greatest gift to mankind. Make worship an important part of your holiday.


Next post: for those who spend the holidays alone and are not busy enough.